Reoccurence

What has happened has happened then, will happen again. These are the words of King Solomon (Biblical truth)

When you've gone through a situation and it felt like everything was just falling apart, you either just slept for day. You might've made your own plans just to get out of it quicker. You've put the idea of food one side but eventually you had no choice but to eat something because you want to be stronger to continue living. 

Have you been there before?

I've been here many times, and it just sucks. Right?

Then life continues to be good, not great though but manageable. 

When life is good, what do we forget?

We have to stay humble. When life is good, you cannot let your ego get the better of you. When life is good, empathy should be the key to remember who was empathetic towards you in time of ruin(if I can call it that).

So, this morning you wake up and the "what has happened then", is 100% back again. What do you do this time? What will your response be?

Stop... Think... Choose

This method really sucks because we want to get angry, say what we feel and think.

A little bit of advise.

If you didn't learn the first time it happened, or by the second reoccurence, you will definitely struggle the time around.

The Final Bow

You have #bowed down to things & people who did not serve you and that weighed you down. For a very long time you didn't know how to accept yourself because you were to dependant on others to you what about you is or is not acceptable. If people refuse to look at you in a new light and they can only see you for what you were, only see you for the mistakes you've made, if they don't realize that you are not your mistakes, then they have to go.

Accept yourself, love yourself, and keep moving forward. If you want to fly, you have to give up what weighs you down.

But, thank God, you gave your final goodbye bow, a laugh and wished them peace, and finally living the desired life. 

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