Truth is...

The truth is, unless you let go, unless you forgive yourself, unless you forgive the situation, unless you realize that the situation is over, you cannot move forward.

This is for your own good because, taking offends to what others do or did, will place you in harm's way. 

So here's the thing...

The most important kind of freedom is to be what you really are. You trade in your reality for a role. You trade in your sense for an act. You give up your ability to feel, and in exchange, put on a mask. There can't be any large-scale revolution until there's a personal revolution, on an individual level. It's got to happen inside first. 

And if you say it is actually happening on the inside, then there's absolutely no need to walk around with that face that looks like you're angry at the world. Or that death stare you give everyone who's actually genuine with you. 

Many people claim or I've heard quite a few people say "my mouth won't say it, but my face definitely will" 

That statement right there, is one of the fakest ways a person can show themselves. 

So...

Thinking something does not make it true. Wanting something does not make it real. But, doing what you said you did will make a whole lot of difference to the lives of those who are actually happy for being set free by those who claim they put up a boundary. 

Decisions...

I love decisions. Especially when I know it will be good for me. Making decisions where my life and others are concerned, it will definitely show in my actions. I am happy, I am playful, I am showing that this decision will benefit the next person as well. I won't be sad because I made a great decision, I will be happy. Because now I can focus on experiencing fruitful friendships. Maybe even friendships I was denied as a young person. Yes it was good for me then, but now that we're older and good on making the right decisions, I am happy to test the limits. I am happy to see what I'm really made of. I am happy to encounter people with different characteristics, temperaments and definitely see if they are able to tolerate me. 

The truth is...

When you say you're changing for the better, be better. Or else we can and will safely assume you've created yourself as a god in your own image. Who judges sinners for sinning differently, when it turns out that God hates all people who walks around with an image filled with entitlement and pride.